Dealing with loneliness on the road

A long time on the road, whether traveling with a partner or on your own, can give you bouts of loneliness; basically because of your transitional status. Sure, you will meet a zillion awesome people all the time, so physically you may never be alone; but it’s not hard to feel lost in the midst of acquaintances. Ever been in a bar with 300 people around, where you know everyone but you feel like you are alone at the place? It’s kinda like that.

Although vagabonding is one of the most life-enriching adventures you can go on, unless you are a robot, emotional loneliness that is normally overcome by hopping to your mum’s, your best friend’s or partner’s home, is not an option on the road.

I find these fits of loneliness are normally short-lived, but they can be the worst bouts of loneliness you have ever experienced. But that’s okay…it’s a sign of being human 🙂

Here is what I do to snap out of feeling lonely when I’m traveling:

• Call my parents or best friend / or write: Somehow, this actually works for me than make me homesick. It allows me to vent, rant, be upset, cry or whatever, without being judged or having to explain yourself. It’s a great release.Writing (a diary or blog) is the second best option if you can’t get hold of someone to talk to.
• Go for a run or a long walk: This really clears my mind. Allows me to disconnect, reminds me of how lucky I am not being in a cubicle 9-5 and to be living life on my terms.
• Go to a small bar close to where you are staying: Sit at the bar for a drink or two, the bartender will become your best friend, and you’ll be laughing the rest of the night.
• Listen to some cheerful music: Warning — don’t listen to anything you cannot dance to, it will make you feel worse!
• Get a good nights sleep: You will wake up feeling like a new person.

Pretty simple stuff, but it has always worked for me.