Whose life are you living?

your time is limited don't waste it living someone else's lifeCarpe diem. Seize the day. Make the most of today. Don’t worry about the future.

We’ve all heard it. We’ve all heard the urgings of others pushing us toward our dreams. “Live for today,” they say. “Let tomorrow take care of itself.”

But should we?

Society has raised us for something different. We’ve been taught since childhood to suffer through today in order to have a better tomorrow. We’ve been raised to toe the line and not question the traditional path through life.

Yet what if we want something different? What if the traditional version of the American Dream with the white picket fence and two SUVs in the driveway doesn’t cut it for us?

Then make your own way through life. Throw caution to the wind and define your own American Dream. It’s your life and you get to call the shots.

And all those people out there who say you can’t? Are you really going to give them a vote?

Yes, it’s scary to buck the status quo, but we know someone who’s time on planet Earth has ended all too soon. All we’re assured of having is right here, right now. Tomorrow may never come.

Don’t be afraid to chase your dreams – wherever they may lead.

carpe the hell out of this diem

Posted by | Comments (5)  | March 20, 2012
Category: General


5 Responses to “Whose life are you living?”

  1. Ben Holt Says:

    It gets less and less scary to buck the status quo, though. It really just takes a bit of courage at the beginning, followed up by lots of practice!

  2. Adriano Says:

    I do agree on the contents… Some doubts on the title.

    Should “who’s” be spelt as “Whose”?

  3. Rolf Potts Says:

    Thanks for the catch, Adriano; I made the change.

  4. Adriano Says:

    Rolf! Glad that I’ve been useful for this blog. I’m a vagabonder “of a special kind” (or on the fringe between travelling and vagabonding) and I’ve found a lot of inspiration here. Keep on!

  5. Nancy Sathre-Vogel Says:

    Thanks for the catch – hate it when I make dumb mistakes like that.

    It’s important that we make decisions for ourselves and not let others make those choices for us. Hard to do at times, but Ben is right – it gets easier.