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January 6, 2010

How do you cope with the post-trip blues?

sadpostitIt happens almost every time. I return home from a trip and, once the jet lag wears off, I find myself feeling a little down. The expectations I had before the trip, and the freedom and wonder I experienced on the road have been replaced with a vague feeling of sadness, a sense of “blah”.  It seems normal enough, I suppose. Just like brides say they go into “planning withdrawal” once the wedding is over, I feel a little sad post-trip. My days of imagining all the experiences I’ll have are over, and though I wouldn’t trade those experiences for anything, the lack of anticipation leaves a little void. And after days of excitement and discovery, it takes a bit of time to readjust to the routines of home.

I love my home, of course. I love my city, I love sleeping in my own bed, and I love the two fats cats I leave behind when I travel. I’m always glad to be home when I am, but there’s still a part of me that feels a little bit of withdrawal when I first return from a trip.

To deal with this “post-trip blues” I employ a number of tactics. First, I try to get back into a routine as quickly as possible. Sure, I’d love to laze around all day reminiscing about the great times I had and processing my thoughts on what I’ve seen and experienced, but there’s work to be done. Getting back to my daily routine helps keep my mind off the post-travel funk. When I have breaks, I write about my trip, I reread the notes I made while traveling, and I download (and look at, maybe a few too many times) all the photos and video I took along the way. Reliving the great experiences I had helps me hang on to that feeling of exuberance and discovery.

I usually start planning my next trip almost immediately. Even if I don’t have the funds yet to actually buy plane tickets, I’ll start scouting out destinations I want to visit and the things I want to do while there. I love knowing that I will be traveling again soon. But, I also make lots of plans with friends and family after a trip. This way, while I know that I have more travels to look forward to, I also have plenty of excitement to enjoy at home. Even more than planning another trip, reconnecting with the people I love at home is a surefire way to cure any remaining post-travel blues.

Do you experience a little bit of travel withdrawal after a big trip? How do you cope with the post-trip blues?

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5 Responses to “How do you cope with the post-trip blues?”

  1. Dealing with Post-Trip Blues Says:

    [...] at Vagabonding offered up a few tactics to combat post-trip blues including returning to a routine as quickly as possible, write about the trip, and planning the [...]

  2. Johnny Vagabond Says:

    I generally drink heavily and then begin planning my next adventure :)

  3. Bianca Says:

    Hi! I don’t know yet, actually. I guess I never felt it. But the discovery that long trips might give place to these kind of feelings is one of the reasons that I decided to travel the world, for one year, starting next month! I even wrote a post about it, on my blog.

    I really hope that it doesn’t happen to me, but I’m ready to experience, if that’s the price to pay.
    I will keep your tips handy, to use them if necessary upon my return. Thanks!

  4. Hani Says:

    How interesting that you would mention this! I recently came back from a trip to Bali and the post trip blues was pretty intense. Yes, I do think getting back into routine and quickly planning your next trip helps a lot. I personally meditate as well. Morning meditations help to set the tone of the day, energizes me and gets me raring to go! Thanks for this article :)

  5. Mental Mosaic Says:

    Great advice.

    I’m with you on the ‘reliving’ bit. For me, going through my photos and writing up special memories and anecdotes about it cheers me up.

    During that acute down phase, though, I find it best to make myself get out and socialize, or have friends over for dinner. It’s harder to sulk with friends around.

    And, of course, plotting my next trip helps. It’s like getting over a broken heart; you always feel better once you are in love again! ;p

    I found you via the Wanderlust Journey’s blog, btw. Nice blog here! I’ll be back. :)

    ~Tui

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