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We’ve all heard that in some parts of the world the left hand has only one function. But what about the lesser known world customs? How does a traveler avoid the cultural faux pas? Last year, Rolf wrote about common faux pas among travelers, suggesting ways to keep from being perceived as an “Ugly American”. But how does a traveler know exactly what offends who and where? Kwintessential and eDiplomat are two websites that can help the well-meaning traveler learn what to do (and not do) when traveling in specific countries.
Say that you have been invited to a dinner party that begins at 7:00 p.m.. What time are you really expected to arrive? This depends a lot on what part of the world you are in. In Turkey, guests are expected to arrive exactly on time for a dinner party. However, in Argentina, arriving on time is impolite; guests are expected to arrive 30-60 minutes late. When throwing a party in Brazil, expect guests to arrive late, but never suggest an “end time” for the party. Also, suggesting that guests bring any food or drink to Brazilian parties is very impolite. But polite guests in South Africa call the hostess before the party, asking what to bring. Confused yet?
Other common dilemmas for the traveler include:
These websites can offer a good starting point for travelers to learn local customs in order to avoid leaving a trail of unintentionally offended people in their wake.
July 26th, 2007 at 9:13 am
As a lefty I always worry about that one… I don’t really know what to do about it though since my right hand verges on useless for anything requiring fine motor control.
It’s nice that these sites exist but there are so many of these customs, we’re all bound to miss a few. I think the most important thing is to remember, when we’re at home, that tourists have different habits and don’t mean to offend… and then hope that we get the same understanding in return when we travel.
July 26th, 2007 at 12:09 pm
This just goes to show that a lot of research goes into traveling the “right” way.
Brandon Watts
Criteo Evangelist
July 26th, 2007 at 5:15 pm
Another good one to note,
the OK sign in the US means A**hole in Brazil.
Also, in Thailand, it is rude to put your fork in your mouth, the fork is only used for loading up the spoon with food.
July 26th, 2007 at 8:20 pm
I’m unconvinced that one shouldn’t say American when in Latin America. In Spanish, there’s a good word for “United States-ian”, but it doesn’t exist in standard English. Further, I’ve never understood why the “don’t say American!” crowd is so upset about the use of “American” but doesn’t see the same problem with “United States citizen.” Estados Unidos de Mexico, anyone? Estados Unidos de Colombia?
August 4th, 2007 at 10:30 pm
kevincure:
It’s relatively easy to understand, and although you’re right about Estados-Unidos de Mexico (not Mejico, you Spaniards), or Colombia.
Mexico, and Colombia isn’t the name of the whole continent,
I tend to say gringo, but I know some people won’t like that.
September 9th, 2007 at 10:39 pm
Very interesting facts in your article. I’ve been to six countries outside the U.S., where I grew up. The “ugly American” term typically originates from the behavior of U.S. military personnel–who tend to be from less cultured regions of America–er, the U.S. When meeting locals abroad, U.S. citizens often spend much time in an apologetic mode–explaining that the U.S. president, uhhh, and the U.S. government does not always represent the will or values of everyday citizens–all of the time. A short time after Busb Jr. got “elected,” while I was abroad, a Canadian asked me what I thought about George W. Bush. I told him straight up, “He’s an a$$hole.” Also, I’m fairly open-minded about local customs, except for the fashionably-late syndrome. In some countries, the “local” times are actually an hour later than sated times. That’s simply unacceptable. The U.S. is the most powerful country in the world, in part due to the nuances of social Darwinism. 9:00 is 9:00 is 9:00.
September 9th, 2007 at 10:43 pm
I almost forgot. About South Americans being offended that U.S. citizens refer to themselves as American…”America” refers to someone who never even traveled to the region, so doesn’t that nullfiy the whole thing? Just some food for thought.
April 4th, 2008 at 7:59 am
Hi,
This is a great post. When I was in East Africa a few months ago, I struggled because I am left handed.
If I had known prior to going what a big deal the distinction between left and right hand tasks were, I would have practiced.
After a few months, I kind of got used to doing things with my right hand, but there were times when not being able to use my left hand to eat made me want to break down in tears.
In addition, when people noticed that I was left handed, it instantly became village news!!!
I was considered some sort of Anomaly.
SM