October 26, 2004
Jonathan Raban on the advantages of traveling alone
"Traveling with a companion, with a wife, with a girlfriend, always seems to me like birds in a glass dome, those Victorian glass things with stuffed birds inside. You are too much of a self-contained world for the rest of the world to be able to penetrate. You've got to go kind of naked into the world and make yourself vulnerable to it, in a way that you're never going to be sufficiently vulnerable if you're traveling with your nearest and dearest on your arm. You're never going to see anything; you're never going to meet anybody; you're never going to hear anything. Nothing is going to happen to you.
"Whereas traveling alone, everything happens. And also traveling alone puts you in this position where you will do almost anything to make contact with other people. My experience of traveling with somebody else is that you just hang around with them. Half the point of traveling alone is that you get so lonely you need to talk to other people."
--Jonathan Raban, in Michael Shapiro's A Sense of Place (2004)
Posted by Rolf on October 26, 2004 08:05 PMThat's a riot. Try not having anyone to talk to BUT your spouse for weeks at a time in remote areas. Nothing will get you out and about faster.
Posted by: Cquirk on October 25, 2004 11:49 PMMy experience is almost exactly what Raban describes. I spent a couple of weeks in Germany last year, by myself. I'm usually pretty reserved, don't talk to strangers, etc., especially when I have a very tenuous grasp of the local language, but by the third day or so I was reaching out to anyone who was willing to try and chat. For example, I spent a very memorable train ride talking with an elderly woman who spoke no English. I speak very little German, so neither of us really knew what the other was saying... but we had a great time anyway. If my girlfriend had been with me, I wouldn't have even tried to talk with that woman.
Posted by: jason on October 26, 2004 10:45 AMBook Release and Tour Diary
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