That's great advice for life itself! Just insert "life" where you say "travel." Of course, the people who would benefit most from your advice probably won't get it ... oh, wait, am I complaining?!

You are so right, both of you (including commentor Julie). I have a friend from Chicago who compares everything (unfavorably) to Chicago. She likes to travel...but I don't understand why she ever leaves her city!

I hate todo a comment that is "me too" - but I totally agree with this one. Well put, Rolf and just a kick arse thought. Thanks for sharing...the way you write it just seems so damn clear to me after I read it.

Living with two small children, I'm immersed in the hackles-raising, buzz saw drone of frequent whining (and they're fairly good humored, happy-with-their-lot specimens, Inky and Milo are.)

Isn't it interesting that some of the characters who really stick in your head years after a particular adventure are the whiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiners.
Hoo boy! That girl we ran into at least 6 times in cities all over Vietnam? The nightmare couple from Tanzania and Rwanda! Mercy!

But in the interest of humility, I wonder who in the world caught me on an ill-tempered, exhausted, homesick and (here's the rub) talkative day and remembers ME as the whiner! I've done my share, though I try to refrain from making generalizations about national character and intentions.

less whine. More wine! Beer will do! Both!

Thanks everyone for the insight and feedback! I hadn't considered the fact that whining is an art we perfect as children. When you think about it, travel-whining is probably a throwback to that childhood-whining. After all, I mention in Vagabonding (with support text from Bryson and Coelho) that travel takes you back to a kind of childhood. I guess whining fits into that childhood equation as well as the curiosity and discovery.

I first became aware of my own propensity for adult whining back when I was still a teacher-expat in Korea. To hear my housemates and me gripe about the workaday hardships of living in a homogeneous culture, you'd have thought we were suffering under Apartheid. Since then, I always try to catch myself -- i.e., head off on that walk -- before I get carried away with pointless grousing.